Crisis Supports for Adult Survivors
It has been found that following every suicidal death, approximately six people undergo a period of intense grief. When one loses a parent through suicide, it can be very difficult to deal with it emotionally. Some of the reasons that make the grieving process more complicated are the societal perceptions of suicide as it associated with shame, rejection, guilt as well as stigmatization. The stigmatization associated with suicide in various communities makes the bereaved family more isolated and vulnerable.Grief is the normal response of any individual after experiencing any loss especially the loss of a close family member. When an individual dies through suicide, the people who were close to them undergo a complicated form of stress which is a combination of many factors like shock, numbness and denial, feelings of guilt, stigma and shame, loneliness and disconnection, depression, trying to find reasons as to why it happened as well as themselves contemplating suicide.(Aiken) The mixture of emotions approaches to management complicated both to the individual experiencing it as well as the people trying to help. Grief is universally a big social problem which every individual experience at any point in their lifetime. The feeling of grief is very hurtfully disrupting, and the effects can be extensive in other instances as the effects of grief can be damaging at times. In childhood, grief is normally associated with behavior and sleep disturbances, reduced interest in school, depression and post-traumatic stress disorder. In adolescents, grief is associated with chronic illnesses, guilt, disruption of self-esteem, depression, difficulty in relationships and school. Adults respond to loss through an expression of anger, shock, anxiety, guilt, sadness, apathy, substance abuse, social withdrawal, disturbances in appetite and sleep. (Johnson, 2016)Following recent studies, it’s been suggested that stress should be identified as a social process and not just a private and internal event that an individual may have to deal with alone. Various factors have been found to influence the kind of grief an individual experience. If an individual had a difficult relationship with the deceased person, his form of grief would be different from an individual who was close to them. In other cases, when an individual succumbs to a long-time illness, the form of grief experienced is different compared to when the death is sudden or as a case of suicide. While grieving, a person may go through different emotional states.Shock and numbness are some of the first emotional reactions when one receives the news. In subsequent days when the individual notices how, the grieving has negatively affected their lives, the emotions begin to subside. The emotional feelings are later replaced with anger, uncertainty, denial, and feeling of loneliness. This stage may last over a long period as the emotions are intermittent.(Haig) The last phase of the grieving process is when the bereaved individual finds ways of coming into terms with the loss and that includes accepting the loss.